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A big Swingers Board welcome goes out to all the new members who took
the time to introduce themselves this past week: lickyluvins,
singleguy101, chianna1, TheGreatRaja, madjack1956, iio33, exploringRM,
easleyfuncpl, illiniscpl4fun, krisangel, jo4fun7, BABYCAKES43130,
norontcouple45, happynudcpl, ErnieandLinda, upinut, militarycouple,
nudesofasia, Lostlika, Lindonca, TXColombia, ozma001, SoNew2This,
crazinred, Thundermerwe, oldcreole, twinskincouple, burton,
warrencouple, allen&Jen and cpl_frm_nv.
In "My
introduction and
questions to the
community",
acorn42047 posted
that his wife
brought up the
topic of bringing
another female
into their
relationship. They
prefer to have a
stable, lasting
and loving
relationship with
another woman but
are not sure if
this is accepted
in the swinging
lifestyle and they
also wonder where
is a good place to
meet another
woman. In
"Swinging young",
jbk said that him
and is friend
would like to
share a woman
between them but
are concerned that
their ages may be
an issue, he is 21
and she is 23.
GoldenEars asked,
"Is it common or
appropriate to use
an alias when
contacting a
club?", both of
them have
high-profile
careers and
discretion is a
great concern of
theirs. The wonder
if giving an alias
name when
contacting a club
and when
introducing
themselves to
others. In "Live
in friends??",
allen&Jen posted
that they have
friends living
with them and
wonder if it's a
good idea to
invite their
friends to join
them for a
foursome. In "Does
she really want
MFM?", rawdog
posted that during
sex his girlfriend
seems to get very
excited when he
talks about her
having sex with
another man. He
wonders if this is
an indication that
she might really
like to have a MFM
threesome or if
it's just fantasy
play.
In
"How early should I
try to get a club
invite?",
lookingforlady posted
that they are toying
with the idea of
visiting their first
club soon and she
wonders how long does
it take to get an
invite and how long is
the invite good for.
In "Kissers &
Tellers", shy_tn_gal
posted that they have
noticed whenever out
with another couple or
talking to a couple at
a club, people tend to
talk about others they
have played with. They
wonder whatever
happened to discretion
and how do you handle
people when you don't
want to hear about
their previous
encounters. Tradeja36
asked, "Why aren't we
getting anywhere?",
they had spoken with a
friend about joining
them for a MFM
threesome and once it
was agreed upon their
friend has now gone
MIA. They have also
been searching on web
sites and chatting
with people but can't
find anyone to hook up
with. In "Finding
lifestyle friends
outside of clubs &
parties", TXColombia
asked, when talking
with what appears to
be a vanilla couple or
female does anyone
have suggestions how
to approach the
subject of swinging
without coming out and
saying, hey, are you a
swinger. In "Friend
showing interest in
hubby, should we
initiate a
threesome?", ratimadan
posted that a female
friend of theirs is
showing interest in
their male half and
they wonder how do
they approach her for
a possible threesome
as she does not know
that they are
swingers. In "How do I
close the deal with a
female friend?",
shes_in_parties posted
that he has a friend
from grad school that
he studies with and
that he would like to
hook up with but he's
unsure how to approach
her as she does not
know that he and his
wife are swingers. In
"Need a lifestyle
friendly counselor",
frndsnmoremaybe is
looking for advice on
where to find a
qualified counselor
that is lifestyle
friendly.
Riprat posted a poll
question in "What are
your favorite play
times?", what hours of
the day do you enjoy
playing the most.
Ratimadan posted a poll
question in
"Swinging-Social or
Sexual", what excites
you the most about
swinging, the social
aspect or the sexual
play. In "Swingers wrist
watch", mrmass asked of
anyone had heard about a
swingers wrist watch
coming out to help
identify other swingers.
In "Couples who have no
kissing rule?", JDStevie
asked are there any
couples who have a no
kissing rule and what
problems did you face
with it and why did you
choose to have a no
kissing rule. In
"Looking to fulfill a
sexual fantasy only
once", LikeMinds321
wonders how many couples
place an ad for the
purpose of fulfilling a
sexual fantasy once with
no intentions of ever
continuing to pursue the
swinging lifestyle. In "Wanna
go away for the
weekend?", JustAskJulie
posted that they
received an e-mail from
a couple they met once
at a social and barely
talked to them that
night, asking them to go
away with them for the
weekend in the
mountains, she asked is
it just her or is that a
bit forward on their
end. In "Swingers iiiiin
spaaaace", intuition897
posted a link for Zero G
- The Weightless
Experience and asked
what happens when you
take a dozen swingers on
a parabolic flight in a
Boeing 727. In "The life
vs. the vanilla one --
do you cross the line?",
leftcoastcouple wonders
if you would discuss
your swinging life on a
vanilla message board or
is this a line you
wouldn't cross. In "The
Friend-Zone",
SexyRedmondCpl posted
that they don't feel
like they are having the
fun time in swinging
that they are looking
for, mainly because once
they meet someone they
tend to just hang out
with them and begin to
feel like they are too
good of friends to
really be involved with
sexually, they are
looking for thoughts on
this. In "How recent are
your swinger photos?",
Thrax asked how often do
you update your swinger
photos and how recent
are they and do you up
date them to reflect any
recent changes. In
"Swinging possibly
fixing a troubled
marriage",
watchem_wiggle posted
that from what she has
understood and believed,
swinging doesn't fix a
trouble marriage but,
she believes that in
their case, they are an
exception and wonders if
perhaps for a small
minority swinging can
help a marriage. In "The
Swinger Test",
JustAskJulie asked if
you were putting
together a 'swinger
test' to determine if a
couple would be good
swingers what would the
questions be on your
test. In "The Sport of
Swinging", jdavisauto
posted that due to an up
coming move they were
looking into swinger
clubs in the area they
will be moving to and
found one that had a
test on their web site
to see if they were
swingers. One question
the test ask was how
often do you have
intercourse in one week
and if it was over five
times a week you would
be good at the sport of
swinging. They never
thought of swinging as a
sport and found this
funny. AdamInEve asked,
"where have all the
swingers gone?", to them
it seems that the
average age of swingers
is late 30s to mid 40s
and they wonder what
happens to that large
group of swingers once
they hit their 50s. In
"Misnomers in Personal
Ads or another side to
their definition?",
BiloxiCouple wonders
what misnomers in ads
have you seen that make
you think, if you were
to actually thing about
it for a moment, one
example is professional
couple, what does that
actually mean. In "Using
the dictionary in your
mind", LFM2 asked, what
is the difference
between kinky and
perverted. In "Hotwife
question?", burton asked
what does the term 'hotwife'
mean in the swingers
world.
In "Examples of bad responses to online ads/contacts",
JustAskJulie would like others to give an example of a band
response you've gotten and what it made you think or want to
respond back to them with. In "Changing your location in your
profile", Willing29 wonders why do people change their location on
their ad profiles just to state they are a couple of towns over
from where they really are. In "Webcam Communities", sid_jeffreys
asked what are the best webcam communities. In "Personal Ads Pet
Peeves", JustAskJulie wonders what are your pet peeves in personal
ads. In "The child dilemma", SexyRedmondCpl posted that they have
seen ads state the couple has children and prefers to meet others
with children but when they state the opposite in their ad, they
are met with opposition, they wonder why is okay to say one and
not the other.
In" Wives would you like to fuck your
husband in the ass with a strap-on", themariner asked
the wives if they would enjoy doing this. Nudesofasia
asked, "Can someone diagnose this?", he has a foul
smelling odor that comes from the area on his penis
where the skin bunches up and folds around the head
and he's not sure what is causing it.