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The Swinger Manual Your guide for everything swinging, from determining if swinging is the right lifestyle choice for you, to how to talk to your partner, find other swingers, and get the most out of parties. You'll find the answers to your swinging questions here.
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 As
the owner and hostess of the
Swingers Board, I've spent the last year giving and reading advice to
swingers, both new and old. There are some truths that ring over and over
again, and some issues that vary so much that only you will ever know the
right answer for you. The Swinger Manual is about helping you
determine your answers, and helping to clarify some of the questions you
already have and will have along the way.
But, The Swinger Manual isn't about me, and it isn't just my advice. Inside you will find advice from many of the people who have made the Swingers Board the place to get good advice on swinging topics since 1997. You'll find real advice and real experiences from other real swingers, from couples who have figured out what it takes to make swinging work for them, and from couples who have decided that swinging wasn't right for them. For those who have found the Swingers Board, they have discovered that you can ask any question and you will get many answers. What I've done with this book is to narrow down all the advice that has been given on the Swingers Board in the last decade and compile it together in an easy to read format. No searching to find the answer on a particular topic, it's all there in order from understanding who swings, to determining if Swinging is right for you. From understanding the various reasons why people swing, to the various ways that they choose to go about swinging. From determining your boundaries and understanding others, to understanding the risks you take when you choose this lifestyle. You will learn the general etiquette of swinging and most importantly you will be able to tell when it's time to call it quits and walk away from the lifestyle altogether. To the right you will see the basic layout of the Swinger Manual and the topics that it covers. Within each topic I give my own advice, which is a cumulative of my own thoughts and the combination of the great advice given on the Swinger Board. Following that, you will read quotes from real swingers who have shared their thoughts an experiences on that topic within the forums of the Swingers Board. You will find that often opinions vary. The first chapter, "What Is Swinging", answers a common question. It
gives meaning to some of the common terms used within the lifestyle and
removes some misconceptions about those terms. In "Who Swings", you will
find out what types of people swing and just what the difference is
between swinging and cheating. In "Should We Swing", you are asked
to ask yourself and your partner some important questions to determine if
swinging is right for you. Many will read this book on their own
before they ever bring up the topic of swinging to their partner, and this
chapter will also help them determine whether or not it is worth the risk
to do so. Once you are ready to talk to your partner, "Discussing
Swinging with
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What is Swinging? Swinging vs Lifestyle Full Swap vs Soft Swap Who Swings? Swinging is NOT for everyone Swinging vs Cheating Open Minded Should We Swing? Does your relationship have what it takes? Why Do You Want to Swing? Fantasy fulfillment Sexual fulfillment To feel more Attractive Friendship/ Relationships The Unexpected benefits of Swinging The cost of Swinging
Discussing Swinging With Your Partner What Do You Want out of Swinging? Establishing Boundaries The Risks of
Swinging Getting Started The Etiquette of
Swinging Knowing When
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Your Partner" will guide you through the steps you may need
to take to do so. As you discuss swinging, you will want to discuss
the question of "What Do You Want out of Swinging?" and hopefully come to
a consensus. After you have determined that you are both ready to
swing, you will need to work on "Establishing Boundaries". This chapter
will help you do so. Before you jump in, make sure you weigh "The
Risks of Swinging" before getting started. "Getting Started" walks
you through step by step how to choose playmates, where to find them and
what to do once you get them, as well as addresses many issues you may
encounter along the way. The "Etiquette of Swinging" is something
that many people don't stop to think about until it is too late. Many find
that it is time to take a break or quit swinging altogether at some point
and "Knowing When to Call it Quits" will help you know when that time has
arrived for you.